It's your own responsibility to make yourself understood

Why can't everyone take this statement to heart?
It would solve so much confusion in interpersonal relating.
Say what you mean!
Don't be passive aggressive!
Don't make me figure you out!
Tell me what you want me to know! What you want to "get"!
If you want to play games, hire someone to play with you!
A therapist perhaps? A psychiatrist? They get paid to figure you out.

It is not fair to judge how good of a friend someone is by how much of you they figure out. I don't have time to sit and think about what makes you tick everytime we are together. That's not what friends do. They enjoy each other. Not everything should have to be intense. Having fun, and laughing doesn't mean fluff. It means enjoyment. How are friends defined these days?